MOST people admit their lives are too complicated,
they have to be different things to different people,
They exist simultaneously in parallel universes as if its easy
but will not talk from within one universe about that universe... 
no-one wants to admit who they are. Everyone's a spy
Maybe old versions of what were thought of as realities of who one is, no longer exist.

It’s difficult to find self language.
Everyone lives in several bubbles including the bubble of their own making